When Is The Right Time To Have A Baby?
January 28th, 2011Many educated women appear to have accepted the idea that babies must take a back seat in exchange for establishing and sustaining a professional career. Stories about the virtues of older motherhood or that women can easily conceive at any time up to their early 40′s have encouraged successfully-employed women to forego motherhood.
The truth is women who put off trying to have children until their 30′s or later may reduce their chances of becoming pregnant – and risk losing out on motherhood altogether. Women become less fertile with age. And so if you wait too long, motherhood may pass you by.
Pregnancies are also harder to maintain in older women – whether through a fertility clinic or in an unaided pregnancy. Women in their 40′s have a rate of spontaneous abortion one-and-a-half times that of women in their 20′s. As we get older, the greater the chances of bearing a premature, or low-birth-weight infant.
By evolution and by nature, women are designed to have children early. Of course, our social and professional environment is not structured this way. And so it is up to each individual when they decide to start a family.
The best approach is to empower us with all the information we need to make an intelligent decision both for ourselves and for our family.
